WRONG? Communication today is difficult. The rules are always changing. The dating game is on speed. One day you feel a connection. The next day, you don't. I have good instincts when it comes to men. At least I thought I did. I'm usually one move ahead. I'm not one of those women who thinks we are more than what it is. I get it. I'm not YOUR queen. But I am not used to being a PON.
It was homecoming weekend. Everyone was partying. We literally ran into each other. He was abstract. Not that cute. No real sex appeal. It was just something. Every time we hung out, we had so much fun. Our chemistry was so on point. We loved; the same music, the same TV shows, the same restaurants. He was too good to be true. Every morning I would get a call. I absolutely LOVED his voice. I was getting used to US. It had been about 3 weeks. I was ready to take it further. We were chilling at his apartment. He was always so affectionate. I thought he was going to make a move. He didn't. We just kissed. I didn't think much of it. The next morning. He didn't call. When I tried to call him, I got his voicemail. I didn't understand. He always called in the morning. I started to wonder if something happen to him. Days went by, no call. I was really worried. Then he answered. He acted like I was tripping. It was like he was a different person. No argument. No issues. That was IT. I made up excuses to my self. "I was too much for him". "He didn't want to use me like his other women". "He's going to call and apologize". I never heard from him. I guess all relationships don't fit into the three categories. It was surely less than a season. Not even close to a lifetime. And I NEVER got the reason. Still Single
"Now I bring you home,
ReplyDeleteYou tell me goodnight's not enough for you.
I'm sorry, baby,
I didn't mean to turn you on.
Whoa, baby! I didn't mean to turn you on.
You read me wrong.
I wasn't tryin' to lead you on.
Not like you think,
I didn't mean to turn you on."
It was decent of him not to make love to you and then not phone. Maybe he knew you didn't deserve to be hurt.
Sounds Gay to me. Boys will be boys meaning he would've hit a long time ago. I dont care what any one says, men are dogs period. It is in our nature, if we smell that she is in heat then we will attack. I know u may "he is just nice or a gentlemen" Im here to say "that is bullshit". She is still single & he is still gay. That kiss confirmed to him that he is does not like females.
ReplyDeleteNot all men are dogs. Perhaps he liked you but just not enough to solidify a relationship with you. Girl, on to the next one. Don't sweat it or give it another thought.
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