IF 30 IS THE NEW 20 THEN WE ARE BASICALLY..

THE SAME AGE. I wouldn't consider myself a cougar. But I do consider him my BOY TOY. He's not jaded. His optimism is refreshing. I enjoy him. He enjoy's me. What difference does it make if he's, 5, 10 maybe 15 years YOUNGER? Men date younger women all the time. We may not have that much to talk about. But when your dating a YOUNGIN, whose talking?

I didn't even think he noticed me. Until one day our casual conversation turned sexual. I've had friends with benefits, but he was different. He never needed any set up. He was always ready. I could look like crap. He would make me feel beautiful. The sex was, EXACTLY. I didn't even know what an African squat was, til I met him. Being around him was intoxicating. I would forget about my complicated life. He came over to do his laundry. One thing led to another, we were on the kitchen floor. I had to be at work by 8am. He wasn't working. I was getting ready for bed. He wanted to do it again. He was insatiable. I told him I was exhausted. He picked me up and we did it on the washer machine. The next morning, I was a mess. I overslept and couldn't find anything. My back was killing me and my eyes were swollen. I was frantically looking for my other shoe. I noticed he was still sleep. He didn't need to be anywhere. He could have sex all night and sleep all day. I kissed him and told him to lock my door before he left. We would never be more. We BOTH knew this. A few months later, my life was back to basics. I think about him now and again. He told me to call whenever I wanted IT back. I haven't called yet. I guess MY life needs more than just the GROOVE.     Still Single.