TIME. You ever met a guy who really has it together? He's financially stable. He has his own home. He travels extensively. He doesn't have any children. He's educated AND ambitious. They still exist. Not all men are avoiding a committed relationship. They want what we want. A grown established woman . Isn't it a damn shame when HE'S ready and YOUR not?
I met him through mutual friends. We always had a good vibe. We just never hung out. One day he asked. He was a really GOOD guy. I found myself not only liking him for me, but just liking him period. He had so much to offer. I on the other hand was in transition. I had just moved BACK home with my parents. I was still working on my degree. My money was very limited. I really wasn't bringing sexy back. At first, he didn't seem phased by my living status. Our chemistry was strong. I was always at his house. I felt grown when we were together. I was always reminded that I wasn't. He wanted me stay over. I would usually leave before the sun came up. He found it ridiculous. My parents had very traditional conservative values. They didn't approve of me "sleeping over". It became such a headache. The bottom line was, I wasn't ready to be in a relationship. I needed to focus on me. We later became really good friends. He's still a great guy. I'm ALL grown-up. Of course he's married now. I'm happy for him. You don't always meet Mr. Right at YOUR right time. Still Single
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