WEAR IT! I love black women. Let me be real. I love WOMEN. I've dated outside of my race. But remain faithful to my own. I get a little tired of the "angry black woman thing". Its ridiculous. We don't have a script on how to degrade women. There are certain women who have just not been taught how to SHOW respect. I am a man of GREAT constraint. Most of us have said things we regret. I don't. Because when I call a woman a BITCH, I mean it.
Two years and she STILL doesn't know how to say THANK YOU. She was beautiful and educated. We met at a business conference. Her ambition and drive was sexy. I have dated all types of women, black white, asian, latino and OTHER. She fit some of the stereotypes. A classic Ms INDEPENDENT; bossy, opinionated, can do everything herself, I was still attracted. She motivated me. I wanted to grow with someone. She was a good soundboard. Over dinner, I shared with her my new idea. A breakfast truck, that sold NOTHING but grits. Cinnamon grits, cheese grits, grits and bacon, I had a thousand recipes. The business plan wasn't complete but she got the gist. Maybe she was PMSING, maybe she was drunk, either way she was pissing me off. Her questions were condescending, her tone was belittling. I had dealt with this for TWO years. I had enough. I told her to shut up. She just stared at me and KEPT talking. I told her to get up, so we could leave. She refused. I wanted to get out of there. I waved to the server to bring the bill. I told her this wasn't working, "maybe we should take a break"? She laughed and said she'd have another boyfriend by tomorrow. I just shook my head and got up. As I walked away, I passed yet ANOTHER angry black woman who over heard me mumble something under my breath. She asked me "who you calling a BITCH"? I wanted to say YOU Queen Latifah, but THAT BITCH wasn't for her. Still Single
Yes,women really need to take it back to letting a man be a man,show respect and support.I think most women think basketball wives and all these reality shows are there lifestyle,even they got serious issues wake-up!
ReplyDeleteThis has nothing to do with race. From Day #1 the woman did not say "thank you." Non-verbally, he consented to be her "bitch."
ReplyDeleteI refuse to believe that the " the whole is equal to the sum of its parts". Please kill the "Anger Black Woman theory" Admit that your ego just didn't survive. Its too hard to accept that you stayed in a relationship to feel better about yourself.
ReplyDeleteYou decide to date a woman with attitude who was made at the world and everyone in it. She was like that when from your first date to your last. It made you feel good espacially when she turned that attitude on others, but the reality is you loved it until she turn it on you. We are always being ourselves even when we are at best or worst. So move on and get over it she did.
ReplyDeletethe here and now...great lesson. lol
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