to the wrong person. It just seemed like the practical thing to do. We were living together. She was a good woman. She was committed to making me happy. All of my friends were getting married. My parents worried that I'm going to end up alone. I'm almost 40. I want children. I guess the CLOCK doesn't just tick for women.
We met at work. I was with someone else at the time. We became friends. After I broke up with my ex, we started dating. On our first date, she told me how she felt. I already knew. She'd been waiting for her turn. Our relationship progressed pretty fast. We went from; dating, to being committed, to living together. I realized that she was trying to be THAT woman. I allowed her to feel like she was. She cooked for me. She kept the house immaculate. If I wanted to hang out with the fellas, she was always cool. The subject of marriage often came up. I did want to be married someday. My parents have been married for over 30 years. I wanted that for myself. I actually thought I'd be married with a couple of kids by now. I was feeling some pressure. My cousin text me that my ex was getting married. It shouldn't have mattered, but it did. I couldn't let it go. A couple of months later, I was engaged. I'm currently planning my wedding. She couldn't be happier. Even though she knows. By the time you read this post, I might be married. Life is about choices. There are plenty of people who marry for the wrong reasons. I'm not. Marriage isn't always about love. I'm getting married so I won't have to be "STILL SINGLE"
True! Christians get married all the time so they won't have to fornicate anymore and most of the time the sex is what you wanted but not that person for life or the marriage....So much pressure LOL!
ReplyDeleteHe doesnt seem ready for marriage. I hope it works but I doubt it.
ReplyDeleteHe's starting a marriage with one foot already out of the door. He's absolving himself of responsibility when he writes, "Even though she knows." WRITER: At least do some damage control by not having children until you KNOW that your heart and soul are committed to this union.
ReplyDelete"I don't have the heart to hurt you
It's the last thing I want to do
But I don't have the heart to love you
Not the way you want me to.
Awwww, hell. They will probably be divorced soon anyway. LOL
ReplyDelete#Epicfail
ReplyDeleteAmen to the first comment!! But this is a recipe a divorce.
ReplyDeleteHaste makes waste! And you'll be wasted if you're hasty! -The Potty Mouth-
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