SO I'VE PUT ON A LITTLE WEIGHT....I STILL LOOK

GOOD! The media has EVERYONE on a diet. Models are slim white women. Video VIXENS are bootylicious black women. I think I'm somewhere in between. I used to be the bomb. Cute in the face, slim in the waste. Then we started dating. I got a little comfortable. I'm beautiful at ANY size. You love ME don't you? Maybe I am PHAT, but am I still your BABY?


Having BODY, makes life easier. I LOVE looking good. He saw my BUTT before he saw my face. That was our running joke. He was a mechanic where I got my car fixed. Our chemistry was instant. I'm a girly girl. I'm all; hair, nails and make up. He was so in to me.  We'd been together for almost a year. We were going strong. Looking in the mirror one day, I noticed a little more jiggle in the middle. WHATEVER. He loved my ASSETTS. Life is stressful. I didn't have as much time to get to the gym. I didn't have as much time to get my hair and nails done. Men don't have the same pressure. While getting dressed for work, he pinched my stomach. I looked at him and said "what"? He told me that I needed to get back in the gym. I was waiting for him to laugh. He didn't. He was serious. I was embarrassed. Maybe I had become a little TOO comfortable. I've never been THAT girl. I've always gotten attention for the way I looked. I decided to ignore his comments and do me. A few more months passed, my clothes weren't fitting. I noticed him acting different. I didn't want to believe. I had actually let myself go. He broke it off. Made up some excuse about needing to focus on his kids.  I'm working on losing the weight. I'm doing it for me. Women just can't forget. Whatever you USED to get them, you better maintain to KEEP them.
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