CAR! When things don't go my way, I can get a little upset . I'm an only child. I don't like to share. I'm not a desperate woman. I have the RIGHT assetts. I just don't know why men continue to test me. I wouldn't cheat on me. I am THAT woman. I go through emails. I check phone logs. I snoop through pockets. DON'T lie about where you been. I really hate this side of me. SOME men just never learn.
We were dating for about 6 months. I was totally committed to him. When we first met, I had some doubts. I knew he was dating other women. He said he stopped seeing them. I believed him. There weren't any signs of him cheating, AT FIRST. Then late one night, his phone goes off. He doesn't answer. I knew at that moment what I had to do. I started monitoring his phone. I clocked his schedule. Snooped through his pockets. I knew he was cheating but I couldn't prove it. I purchased a little gadget on-line. It gave me his passwords. Just like I thought, naked pictures of some chick. He must have thought I was playing. I confronted him. He denied knowing where the pictures came from. OK. He was warned. We are still together. I really can't share any more. All I can say is, he WISHES he was STILL SINGLE.
um are you still with this guy??
ReplyDelete@word2urmoms Yes the author of this story has reported that she is still with him and plans to make his life hell, im sure your question is why stay? I will let her comment directly to that, so stay tuned!!
ReplyDeleteAll I can say if she feels that she needs to snoop through his stuff then he is not the one! It takes too much energy to be on guard like that in a relationship. I mean is it better to be with someone that you don't trust than to be alone? Boy, she needs my business card.
ReplyDeleteShe is tormenting herself! Not him!!! Move on! And know that you'll find someone who loves YOU! Love and committment is easy... Its not work! Get up, get out, and get something! Do it for you!
ReplyDelete"Hooh it feels so good
ReplyDeleteWhen you let go
Of all the drama in your life.
Now you're free from all the pain,
Free from all the games,
Free from all the stress,
So find your happiness!
[No More Drama: Mary J. Blige]
The writer has an inflate ego. She denies it by saying "I hate this side of myself," but she actually THRIVES on the drama. The misery she is planning for him will eventually consume her, too. This ain't about love. It's about CONTROL.