FLESH AND BLOOD? Men lie. Women lie. We all lie. Some say "a lie is a lie". I don't agree. I tell my girlfriend "I like your hair color"! I actually don't. Thats a lie. My boyfriend is seeing another woman. I ask him if he's cheating. He denies it. Thats a lie. My boyfriend as a result of his cheating conceives a child. He denies IT. This is not JUST a lie. YOU are not a MAN!
We were at a crossroad. After three years, we were trying to figure US out. I knew we loved each other. We had experienced so much together. I was going to spend my life with him. Then she called. The call caught me off guard. I cursed her out. I called her all types of BITCHES. She hung up. She had blocked her number. I couldn't call back. I confronted him. He denied the relationship. He said it was some chick who had been hanging on for years. I didn't really know what to think. We had some problems but I never felt he was cheating. After that call, I never heard back from her. Several months went by, he proposed. I was little nervous. I loved him. I wanted to marry him. I accepted. A month or so later, we had more news. I was pregnant. Our life seemed to be moving forward. The wedding plans were on there way. The baby was kicking up a storm. We moved into OUR new digs. I could not have been happier. He was by my side the entire time. He cried when he saw the first sonogram. He told EVERYONE we was having a boy! A letter came to the house. It was a child support notice. It was from that woman who I'd cursed out. I found out later, she wasn't calling to tell me about HER. She was calling to tell me about HIM. His ELDEST son. .........Still Single
Dejavu o I have been there with my own children's father....the baby was his an he isn't a man either. but my twist was he got me pregnant with our second child by slipping off the condom during the heat of passion ....lol....that dirty dog......an now he doesn't take care of none of the kids....
ReplyDeleteThis happens all to often with MEN , they Roll the dice and crap out , I'm not saying the child isn't a blessing but the method in which the baby comes about is the crap out , its SAD because he knew the situation from day one and he still proceeded to bring the OTHER lady into his sick crazy world , NOT COOL !!
ReplyDeleteAnd the baby comes into the world when the parent or parents have a bunch of FOOLISHNESS! And because mom and dad can't work things out for the benefit of the child, the child is all screwed up. Now I'm not saying that mom and dad should be together, but I am saying that they would learn how to co-parent the child and be an example of how to positively deal with conflict. Besides, then YOUR CHILD GROWS UP and might do the same thing! It can be a vicious cycle! I mean, after hearing that two pre-teens were KILLED by step parents...I'm a bit angry because adults can't get it together! It's just not fair, because these kids didn't ask to come into the world! Whew!
ReplyDeleteMy question is...what kind of relationship will the BROTHERS have and how will the parents promote that relationship?
Ok, the girl in the story could not have been that blind! When love is good, its good... But it can't take you for a spin to where you don't listen to reason... She was stupid... He was doing him... In the end, she has to deal with his fuck up!
ReplyDeletenote to self: when with a man and recieve a mysterious call...entertain and ask question!!! Everybody aint tryna ruin your relationships...some of the stories told by randomn phone calls has at least a percentage of truth. Had she'da stepped out of her pride for a moment she may have been able to take a hunch and go in a different direction.
ReplyDelete"The pretty face, men claiming that they did a bid men
ReplyDeleteNeed to take care of their three and four kids men
They facing a court case when the child's support late
Money taking, heart breaking now you wonder why women hate men
The sneaky silent men the punk domestic violence men
The quick to shoot the semen stop acting like boys and be men
How you gon' win when you ain't right within?"
[That Thing: Lauryn Hill]
I got a call from a woman about a man on different subject. I was defensive, but did not curse her out. She ended saying, "You'll find out." I certainly did. She was right. STILL SINGLE: I'm proceeding with caution from now on. You do the same.