I THINK MY HUSBAND FORGOT WHATS IT LIKE....

to be SINGLE! Single people want to be married. Married people want to be single. It happens. You get comfortable. You begin to take each other for granted. You begin to think what life would be like without them. Not sure if you really want to break up your happy home, you right it off as a rough patch in the relationship. And then it happens. The simple flirtation. So what do you do when your not the ONLY one considering being SINGLE?  

We met at a grocery store. Although my mom was with me, he shamelessly flirted. I tried to ignore him, but he was persistent. He asked my mother what was my status. She said "MARRIED". A little on the cocky side, he still gave me his business card. It was flattering but I was good, so I threw the card in my dash.  Act two, I see him AGAIN at Dave n Busters (with his kids?) Now I'm curious. He was a cutie pie, not exactly my type but still handsome.  I decided to look him up on Face Book. We had some mutual friends. Curious to know how he knew them, I sent him a message and there you go.  Starbucks, lunch, flowers, movies, dinner, it was exhilarating. We were talking/texting all the time. I FELT single again? About two months in, he decided he wanted more. He moved out and left HIS troubled marriage. WE found him a place.  Now it was my turn. My marriage was struggling too, but? My situation was different. My husband noticed the increased passion in our sex. I wasn't complaining as much. While seeing him, my marriage actually seemed to get better.  It may seem crazy, but having a FRIEND made me value my HUSBAND. It wasn't easy. But I let him go. My husband never found out and we are still happy today. May not seem fair, because Im not but HE is..... Still Single.