Monday, August 22, 2011

WARNING, PLAYERS wear

suits too! Office romances can be fun and exciting. You flirt in the hallway. You meet for secret lunches. During staff meetings, you send naughty texts and make plans for hooking up later. It all seems so innocent and sweet. But what if you find out that your office boo is actually the office whore? And you thought he was ONLY flirting with you.

His compliments seemed harmless. He was established and educated. "I just love a man in a nice suit". I started to notice a connection in our banter. He was obviously handsome, but I was drawn to his wit. I started to dress for him. I knew what he liked. There was a lot of attractive women in the office who wanted his attention, but I had it. It was invigorating seeing him across a room, knowing that we shared something special. We had decided that it would be best not to share with anyone that we were feeling each other. It was complicated. Our relationship was going full steam. He wanted me to send him some naughty pics.  I obliged. He later asked for some video action, I was down. Maybe it was the idea that nobody knew that made it even hotter , I don't know. But I was open. One day, a female co-worker was gossiping about a story she had heard. She began telling me about this STUPID girl in the office who had been sending pics of her tits to this dude (my dude). I was pissed! "He's showing my pics"? "Now everybody is going to know". I was so embarrassed. To make matters even worst, she pulled out her phone and said "you want to see"? I tried to look away but when she showed me the picture, I realized..... it wasn't me. I don't have a nipple ring. I wondered how many other women he had done this to? I immediately stopped talking to him. A few weeks later, I saw him in the mail room flirting with old Ms. Jackie. Couldn't help but think "did she send a video too"? The thought made me ill.
Still Single.


8 comments:

  1. Work Place Sex is Very Very Dangerous , in a perfect World you guys connect fall in Love get Married and buy a house with a white picket fence NOT , its easy to turn into the office Dirt Bag , I'd tell anybody never sleep with a co worker nothing Good can come out of it , keep you kinky away from the pay check !

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  2. Love the last comment.....nothing good can come out of work place romance unless it's you and your husbands business LOL! Hold up wait, that could be bad too---

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  3. Its an old adage, "Don't Shit where you Eat"... And in the end your reputation is in question not his! Be grown and sexy and avoid office romance!

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  4. I beg to differ, and I'm surely an exception, but I met my husband at work, we have a kid, house,dog,and a grey picket fence :)
    Sometimes it works out!

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  5. You might be the exception but its not the rule!! I'm sure you put in some work on that one. I know for a fact that office romance breed mad competition...

    At the time... being a single woman dating on your job what challenges did you face, because I know there were some.

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  6. Wow.....ive dated a co worker once.....never again cuz when its gd its gd but when it goes sour it becomes ackward....

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  7. I'm sure it's possible to have a lasting relationship when you are not dating the office whore! And even for the grown and sexy it can still be hard when its feeling good or bad! Some folks just prey on others to get whatever they want. One just has to be wise enough see through the mess. What a story! How sad! I'm sure her face was TIGHT!

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  8. It's one thing to have a "secret" office romance, BUT, as everyone should know, when you send nude photos and are sexting, you risk outing more than your secret romance; you risk your own privacy. I saw a quote that read, "Follow your heart, but take your brain with you."

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