DRAMA? I planned to be a father SOMEDAY. Men are not groomed to dream about PRINCESS charming. Women have tendencies to confuse sex for intimacy. I enjoy being single. And I support PLANNED PARENTHOOD. So what do you do when your FRIEND wants more than benefits? Men don't have any say. I'm handling my responsibility. I thought she understood. But she was dead wrong if she thought having a BABYwith me would turn us into THREE!
We were cool for years. No games just sex. She knew the deal. I wasn't stringing her along or promising more. We maintained very clear rules. We always practiced safe sex and she was also on the pill. Neither of us had any kids or wanted any, so I thought. One day, she tells me to come through. Her roommate is away, so we have the whole house. Our sexual chemistry was always on point. But that night, she seemed more freaky. She told me she wanted to "FEEL" it. I wasn't thinking with the right head. Two months later, she says she's pregnant. I felt like KAIN from Menace to Society. "It ain't mine"? I was feeling set up. My life was spinning out of control. Booty calls turned into I love you calls. My friend NOW wanted to be my woman. I would never make this woman my wife. But she would ALWAYS be my baby mama. I was in shock. I finally accepted my status. I am going to be a father. After months of NOT playing house, my daughter was born. To this day, she claims she doesn't know how she got pregnant......So interesting since she also doesn't know how my name got submitted to child support.
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Silly Boy, you should have known better. You must have been 12 when that happened... SMH,,, Well we all make mistakes, just so happens yours turned out to be a Little Princess.. so all you can do is handle your handle.
ReplyDeleteblah blah, blah, ... why are men so gulliable! No one gets SOMETHING for NOTHING these days!
ReplyDeleteSome times in my opinion women find it difficult to just have casual sex for a long period of time....when she said she wanted "to feel it" u shoulda told hey it feels just like one of your toys...lol
ReplyDeleteYou had to know that she could possibly get pregnant if you didn't use any protection. When you play with fire you will get burned......lol
ReplyDeleteNothing exists in a vacuum. It either gets better or worse. Sex is personal to a woman, they give you a piece of themselves every time they have sex with you. Once you have more than 50%. You have a wife or a problem. I assume you are under 20 since you kept going back to the "Well". Please read!!
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