the hint! I'm open to meeting different people. I appreciate the sport of dating. Every date is not a love connection. But what if the date your on, is the worst date you ever had? You have nothing in common. You have nothing to talk about. You are watching the ice melt in your glass. Your waiting for him to end the agony and he mentions DESSERT?
I'm in my twenties. When someone offers to take me out, I'm usually game. My girlfriend hooked me up with a co-worker. I had all his vitals. Single, no kids, working on his masters degree and had his own place. DING! I noticed that he was little shy over the phone. I figured he would open up in person. We decided to meet at one of my favorite restaurants. From the moment we saw each other, he complained about there being too many white people. At first it was funny. Then it was annoying. WE are both from VA, duhhhhh. You are going to see some white people. I was trying to make the best out of a bad date. It wasn't happening. I started imagining other things that I could be doing with my time. "I surely had some coins to roll"? I had never felt so anxious to end a date. When the waiter came to take our order, I excused myself to the ladies room. While looking in the mirror, I decided "I'm going to leave". I knew it was wrong, but I didn't care. I peaked out the door, he wasn't looking. I slid pass the host and shot to my car. I had conjured up a good, "I started my period story" for when he called. About an HOUR later, my phone rang. I wondered what took him so long. He asked me was I ok, apparently he didn't realize I had left? I was done. I told him strait up. "The date was WACK, so I left". He then proceeded to ask could he come over. I told him to lose my number and I hung up. He was more SHALLOW than HAL! Wasn't he on the same BAD date as me? Apparently not, he text me "whats up" the next day.
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When he called, you should've told him to go back to Africa, and this includes South Africa. There are black people in South Africa as well.
ReplyDeleteUmmmmmmmmm,I wouldn't have left, because I would not have been that rude. I would have went back to the table, but I would have let him known in some type of way, that this will be the last time you see my "black" ass.
But, then again, some guys don't handle rejections well, and end up stalking you.
But none the less, or wiser, when he did call I would have told him to moveon.com. That's how I roll...."giggles"
That was a Whack and cowardly move... (sneaking out like that) you should be sentenced to being single for the next 2 years.. Who knows you could end up in a relationship and things may not be going as planned and you sneak out/leave..
ReplyDeleteWOW!!!! I think i woulda ate first....it was your favorite restaurant...lol
ReplyDeleteI think the most appropriate thing to do would have been to explain to him that it was not going well and hope you all could part as friends. He may have learned something from you and you from him that would have made your both better for the next time.
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